Which stone should we wear?

Hi Pavithra,

Welcome to the forum.

As per your birth details, you have born on wednesday, under Moola constellation 1st quadrant and Saggitarious Zodiac and Leo Ascendant.

As per your husband’s details provided by you, he has born on Friday, under Revati constellation 2nd quadrant and Pisces Zodiac and Ascendant.

As per the details provided by you, The star compatability is 21 out of 36 gunas which is 60% out of 100%. And as per the horoscope match is concerned your husband is more manglik than you say he is manglik of 100% and you being 30%. And as per the horoscope is concerned if i would have given to match i would have rejected this match reason it has some more doshas when marriage takes place.

As per your both’s birth details, you are positive attitude person and your husband negative attitude person. You are person sticking to firm decisions in point of life, and your husband will be of dual thoughts and dual mindset person. At the same time he is highly flucating personality, like every few minutes he will be changing his mindset. Where as you, you being doubty and wicked mindset person, every time even for small things you will be digging around it, trying to know about it even if there is no such things. In simple words you mind set is like CID everytime want to find some thing about people especially about your husband, where he goes what he does. Your husband is short tempered and at the same time very much stubborn in nature. Where as you are also short tempered at the same time you are mind changer and you being arrogant in mindset.

I hope both of yours would be love marriage / love cum arrange marriage. And both of you are having severe putra dosha. And especially your husband is have little more than you and at the same time he is having pitru dosha as well. Where as you along with putra dosh you are having matru dosh. I can see you had misbehaved with your mom in previous birth and got curse from her. And your husband had misbehaved with his dad in his previous birth and got curse from him. Along with this you both have killed snake in your previous janams / incarnation. And the snake spirit is not giving you any child / progeny in this birth.

I can’t understand if it is been arranged who had set and certified both matches well with out studying horoscopes properly. I really pitty for you both. I can see lots of problems due to misunderstandings, ego, anger between you guys. I can see even he is having some health issues pertaining to mars and shani. And he can’t be happy in married life and any partnerships.

Before predicting any thing about your progeny can you please mention your marriage date, time (mangalya dharan timings exact) andn place?

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar

Dear Pavithra,

Can you please be little more accurate above your marriage muhurtham timings like check your videos and tell me the mangalya dharan time nearly exact 5 mins variations is permitted, in this case how accurate you are will also be good. Along with this it would be better to analyse the first intimate time during your first night. So can you give me this time as well i know you can’t be accurate in this 🙂 give me approximate one with 10 mins variations would be ok.

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar

Dear pavithra,

As per the details of your marriage date and time provided by you, you have got married in Capricon Lagnam. 

Frankly speaking the muhurtham is utterly worst and highly bad. As per the muhurtham only you people has to live separately  and no understanding between you both every time quaralleing and after march 2010 you both might have started staying away for financial reasons. And i can even financial matters was also an issue for the fights many of times. And as per marriage date as well the putra stanadipathi is been placed in house of loss along with enemy jupiter and aspected by mars and moon. Who gave this muhurtham by the way? its really very bad and more over as per this muhurtham you both get seperated after april next year 2015 and with in february 2018. And by any chance missed more of sure afte 2020. And the reason will be for health issues and some accidental causes.

And as per your nisheka timings fifth house lord shani is been placed in house of loss and is also afflicted by ketu and rahu. And the 5th house is been also afflicted by mars. So even here its clearly been shown that there is rahu and ketu and mars along with shani who are interupting for your progeny and even marriage timings is very much bad not been favourable. the remedies what i prescribe also is just will be an try maximum chances are very less.

Both husband and wife should visit Kukke Subramany temple and perform Sarpa Samskara, Aslesha bali, Pavamana Homa and tila homa. 

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar

I am really very sorry Pavithra if my predictions has hurt you in anyway.

Truth sometime might be bitter. As per your marriage time it is very much indicating that; you can try to avoid these things to certain extent by following the remedies which I have prescribed. If not then it would be very tough. However, along with these remedies if you prefer I would like to prescribe few more simple remedies for you both.

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar

Dear Pavithra,

I can understand your frustation being an Indian women the feelings towards the marriage and relationship. The remedies what ever you had followed all the above doesn’t even help you, yes i do agree all the above remedies are for progeny however you need to take the relevant pill for the relevant disease rather than taking general pill. You agree right. All the above remedies what you had followed are all general remedies so doesn’t effect.

As you both are carry forwarding the sarpa hatya dosha and Sarpa preta dosha from your past incarnation. You need to feel sorry for the spirit of snake which is behind you both. And the only way to do is perform samskara (funeral) ritural for the snake and you should behave as the same as you had lost some one close to your family. Which will please to certain extent the serpent spirit. And pavamana homa and tila homa are the havans which you need to get it done in kukke subramanya itself and one of the matts there, they will do you need probably go before enquire and fix an appointment for all the three. The first ashlesha bali and Sarpasamskara can be get it done by temple precedings and other two from the mutts.

Along with this i would also suggest you both along with your family like mom and dad and unmarried sibblings visit Gokarna and perform “narayana bali” Pooja there. And tell them to perform this pooja to give mukti to unknown souls / sprits who are troubling you both. And plan to do this before the kukke subramanya pooja.

Looking at your concern i would suggest one more remedy for your separation. Is it possible for both you once again manglya dharan on an auspcious muhurtham? And this had to be performed after all this pooja and it will depends upon both of your timings. So decide your self and come back to me. I will pull out an very much auspcious muhurtham for mangalya dharan. And this has to be done in sacred place only. And there are few more restrictions and rules to be followed. Think and come back to me Okay.  Usally very rarely i suggest this and in your case its very much required.

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar 

@ pavithra,

I can understand your confusion as each astrologer based on his experience he will prescribe the relevant remedy, if you take example of doctors even each doctor would prescribe different medicine of different manufacturer. Here the point arises whether you had approached the required specialed doctor for your ailment and you had been prescribed the relevant medicine for the ailment. See the above said pooja even you can perform from your very own comforts of your home itself, if you could able to get the required skilled purohit who can get this pooja done. And why i adviced you kukke subramnya is because it is one of the very ancient serpent energized / blessed sacred place. It has very much old history from the sages and if you perform any pooja related to serpents and mars will find quiker results as its been serpents blessed placed and having a history from tretayug and dwapara yug. Similar kind of pooja even you could do in tryambakeshwar maharastra in the name of Nagabali pooja.

You have mistaken karma is the work what you do in this birth or any birth. The result which is punya (papa) is really matters. As you have born on Serpent powered nation which is our india if you kill or see killing snake live from you naked eyes, you are been affected by the sarpha hatya dosh. And serpents doesn’t spare so easily till it gets proper revenge for the papa karma did fron any natal person and it will follows several births till they gets satisfied and you feel heatedly sorry for the wrong thing which would had happen knowingly or unknowingly. Advicing is my sincere duty which you are been getting it for free here without any expectations from you. So i to gain some thing you have to sacrifice some thing is the only one thing which i would like to tell at this point of time.

This is the problem with new generation women they doesn’t know the value of the mangal sutra and they just treat it as an ornament. And for doing that there is a long procedure it doesnt mean remove the mangal sutra and wear it No….. For that first you need to come out of the marriage bondage and this you have to do by removing the mangal sutra and toe ring and offer it in Maa durga offerings and pray for good things ot happen. Then both husband and wife has to stay apart for 48 days with out any connection between day it can be physical or oral or telephonic or visual. And they need to follow strict bramhacharya all the 48 days. They need to come out of all the luxury life, like they need to sleep on the floor, try to be very much normal dressed to their offices, perform regular pooja to the god as prescribed. Then later on a particular auspicious muhurtham the mangalya dharan has to be performed in an sacred place like tirupathi( dont again tell its nearer to me), or any other sacred place. By doing this you are again re-joining to an relationship newly.

And dont under estimate about Kukke subramany for your information if you doesn’t The great cricket legent , Master blaster our Bharat Ratna Sachin Tendulkar also had sarpa dosha due to which he was continuously failing to play cricket, then i travelled to Kukke subramanya along with his wife stayed there for 3 days and performed pooja later he developed more in his cricket career. LIke that there are many legends who come all the way from western countries and perform pooja and go. So don’t ever underestimate about the power of the place.

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar